Devin Straderclearly did not keep “the main thing, the main thing.”Jenn Trandid not get the fairytale ending she hoped for at the end ofThe BacheloretteSeason 21. Althoughshe and Strader got engaged at the end of the season, they both went their separate ways after filming the show.
Tran spilled all the tea on her relationship with Strader during the live portion of the finale.The Season 21 finalesaw a fun twist whereTran popped the big question to Straderinstead of vice versa in Hawaii. Unfortunately, things took a sorry turn when the cameras stopped rolling as Tran claimed that she felt Strader begin to pull away, which left her utterly confused. She revealed tearfully to hostJesse Palmerhow his actions were hurtful duringAfter the Final Rosein the following words:

“I thought I found the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. As soon as we left Hawaii, things were different.”
Tran further revealed thatStrader said he didn’t feel the same wayabout her anymore. She also stated that Devin Strader regrets their engagement. Tran expressed that she was fighting relentlessly for their relationship to work, andStrader had even refused to try couples counseling. Though Strader went through various ups and downs throughout the season with fellow contestants, he and Tran shared a strong connection from the get-go.

‘Bachelorette’ Season 21 Contestant Aaron Erb Is Basking in the Glory of “I Told You So”
Aaron Erbcouldn’t be smugger when sharing his views on Jenn Tran and Devin Strader’s breakup. Considering the various altercations that Strader got himself into onThe BacheloretteSeason 21, it’s no surprise that some of his fellow contenders areseizing the opportunity to shed their two cents on his breakup with Tran.
Erb took to TikTok on September 4, where he cheekily expressed how he’d warned everyone about Strader from the get-go. The TikTok had a caption where he shared how he tried to bite his tongue andapologized on behalf of all the men as he believed that Tran deserved better. The clip has Erb lip-syncing to audio fromSpongeBob SquarePantsas he throws evident shade at Strader with some of the onscreen text reading the following:

“Tried to warn everybody how bad this dude was when all I had to do was shut up and let him do it himself.”
Back in a July episode ofThe Bachelorette, Strader pulled Tran aside for one-on-one time during a group date, resulting in Erb confronting him with a book,Principles for Self Growth. Although Tran did end up sending Erb home, he left her with words of wisdom hinting thatsome of the contestants weren’t on the show for the right reasons. In theMen Tell Allepisode, he later revealed that he was referring to Strader,Sam Nejad, andSpencer Conley.
The Bacheloretteis available to stream on Hulu in the U.S.
The Bachelorette
A single bachelorette dates multiple men over several weeks, narrowing them down to hopefully find her true love.
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